Well Being is a State of Mind
Sunday, August 31st, 2008He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much; who has gained the trust of pure women and the love of little children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who has left the world better than he found it; who has never lacked appreciation of earth’s beauties or failed to express it; who has always looked for the best in others and given the best he had; whose life was an inspiration, whose memory a benediction.
—B.A. Stanley
Harmony is a natural state that we all can achieve on a daily basis. By focusing on the positive, you can begin the process of moving up the emotional scales one step at a time. Just by looking at what you can do in every situation you can turn from believing that things are out of your hands to taking responsibility for creating change for the better.
Emotions can guide you. Emotions are a type of unconscious thought that can be hard to identify. When we surface them and understand them, we can turn them into thinking and doing something.
Now, I realize that everyone does not come equipped to think positively every day. Indeed, it is necessary to examine our internal beliefs and get much better acquainted with our SELF. But, it is possible and available. It requires taking a lot of responsibility for how you got into this situation in the first place. And it requires stepping up.
Tension from bad memories are often felt in our shoulder muscles. It is a habitual pattern from holding fear or anxiety. You might ask yourself: “What is it that you are afraid of? What will you not be able to accomplish? What will really happen to you if you do not succeed?”
Usually, we build up situations to be much bigger in our minds than they really are. It is by facing these situations that you grow. And the more fear that you face, the stronger you get. Eventually, you can build up a reservoir of successes. And these successes can give you the self confidence you need to know that you can go, be, do or have anything that you want in life.
Start with believing that you can move forward. You can have a better life. You have somehow created the situations in which you find yourself in life. You got there by thinking about it and then reacting. Any situation can be dealt with by first understanding what you are feeling and then translating that into thoughts and an action plan.
Boredom is the interesting middle ground. When I was a child and feeling bored, I was always told that only boring people get bored. This taught me to become self-directed as I would find something productive to do. Staying above the line enables us to develop our intelligence and use it productively, rather than focusing our feelings on our gratifying our self.
Our job, really, is to understand our self internally so that we process any negative emotions and keep our attention above the line of boredom–this is where all true contributions to society begin. And this gives us the power to manifest our desires, succeed at any activity, attract warm, supportive and helpful people to us, and therefore to create abundance in our life.
By matching up our desires and emotions with our thought process, we can cause the circumstances to occur. It is just not possible to fail this way. Failures occur when our consistent negative beliefs enter into our thinking that this objective is not in the cards.
The better in touch you are with your feelings, the faster you can process them before they start to build up and affect your whole mood. A build up of deep feelings that have not been processed produces a belief system and emotional state. Eventually, it can affect your whole system with either physical or mental illnesses. That is why we should pay attention to what we are thinking. Our thoughts become who we are.
Thought brings your attention to just one little thing, but with focus for deliberate examination.
Emotions tend to diffuse our attention to a lot of little things. Emotions cause a wandering mind. And a wandering mind does not produce any particular result. What I am suggesting is that lower level emotions be dissolved and replaced with better feelings and thoughts.
But a focused set of thoughts on a topic can make miracles happen.
At higher levels of mastery, there are no questions. Thoughts are productive. Work is effortless and fun. Life just seems to fly by presenting one opportunity after another without much effort.










